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International Delete Your Myspace Account Day
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[info]avphibes
So today is International Delete Your Myspace Account Day and so I deleted both my myspace accounts (my personal one and the "business" one I set up and then never touched again). I have to say, it feels great. My attitude toward myspace has ranged from mild annoyance to boiling rage, but I felt like I had to keep the account for the few friends who I actually kept in touch with that way.

Still, this event has galvanized me into action. I don't even check my mypace anymore! I just have a message up on my page telling people I never check my myspace and to just send me an email.

Here is my deal with Myspace and it's so-called social networking: Imagine that you are at a huge party full of people, except that most of the people are actually robots who will repeatedly urge you to download free cell-phone ringtones or look at porn. Then they will stick ads to your body which you will have to peel off. Then, wait! There's someone you actually know! A friend! But it's a pain to actually socialize with them at this party because of the crowds and noise. Also, occasionally, you will see someone you know or someone who you'd like to be friends with, so you approach them and, without speaking, they proceed to unrelentingly throw event fliers at you.

So if people are on myspace just for self-promotion, more power to them, but I don't want to be at a party where everyone's an advertisement. Even from a the perspective of advertising MYSELF, I don't find it very effective to advertise to other advertisements.

So if you also hate myspace, or never use it anymore, delete your account today!

Done. Thanks for the idea.

You've pretty much summed up my feelings on the matter. I use myspace mostly to keep up on news about the obscure bands or singers that I like.

Just "cancelled" my account. Is that the same thing? Mommie? Please make the spam end?

yeah, that's the deal. word! Even though I know there are ways to make Myspace less annoying, I'm just too far gone now... something like 650 friends who I don't even want to bother sifting through at this point.

99% of my "friends" were singers like Dido or Natalie Merchant whom I adore and wish to follow, but the pain is not worth the gain. I read a lot of entertainment "news" rags and blogs anyway, so I'm sure I'm covered.

everyone is in my extended network!

Thank you! You have set me free!

I'm pretty sure myspace is doing everything in its power to NOT let me leave D:
I tried, repeatedly, to cancel my account.. but it NEVER SENDS THE CONFIRMATION E-MAIL.

Which means my profile is still accessible, and I can still log into it.

Shite!

Maybe it's getting spam filtered?

I did this years ago but thanks for spreading the gospel. I am tempted to join Facebook, but--eh--I can't be bothered.

You're a trend-setter...

[info]avphibes

2008-01-30 08:48 pm (UTC)

Yeah, with Facebook I just kind of reached a tipping point of people I knew being on it and being like "get on facebook!" I was skeptical at first based on my irritation with myspace, but I like that on Facebook, nobody can see your profile unless they're your friend and I'm not getting overwhelmed with friend requests from people who are trying to friend 20,000 people to promote themselves. Everyone on my facebook is someone I actually know, which makes it good for keeping up with my friends' updates without having to weed through massive quantities of postings about band gigs and DJ nights. Maybe just because I learned all my lessons from Myspace, my facebook feels much less chaotic.

(Really, though, it was the scrabble game that got me.)

Still, whether one "social networking" site is better than another is pretty subjective, so I'm not telling anyone to join facebook.

Re: You're a trend-setter...

[info]olamina

2008-01-30 09:08 pm (UTC)

Yeah I think I am nearing that Tipping Point.

Awesome. Thanks for the nudge. What the eff does an introvert like me need with a social networking site, anyway? I freak out when the number of people in the same room as me exceeds three.

Thanks for giving me a reason! I *hate* MySpace. I do not want to be friends with teenagers playing power chords. I do not want anything that is ever advertised on MySpace.

I joined Facebook way back in its early days when it was just an individual college thing, and I was somewhat distraught when they opened it to everyone and started making it seemingly more MySpacey, but it still has two very important features: 1) people can't see your profile unless they're your friend, and 2) Scrabulous. Also I do have a thing for Facebook groups. My favorite at the moment is the "I Picked A Major I Love And Someday I Will Live In A Box" group. Yeah, Classics-Religion major...


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